A Parent's Perspective On the Process
Parents of collegiate lacrosse players shared their views on the process of picking out a college. The panel included Scott Hugdahl, Keith Knutson, and John Uppgren.
Understand Your Priorities. “Lacrosse should be a way to get to a college you would have never gotten to otherwise. With that in mind, first look at school based on criteria like academic programs offered, academic standards, cost, location, size, etc. Know what you want from your ideal college, and make a list of schools that fit those criteria.”
Determine What Lacrosse Program Fits You. “There are a LOT of different levels of lacrosse (D-I, D-II, D-III, MCLA I, MCLA II, Club), so be realistic about what level you can play at. Also look at how much playing time you could potentially get, the guys in front of you on the roster, and how competitive the team is. Then cross some schools off that list that don’t fit with your style.”
Market Yourself: “Most players don’t do this, but develop a resume that has your academics, ACT/SAT scores, lacrosse stats, awards/all star games, community service information, and any part-time jobs you have had. Then, write to coaches, including your resume with you and your coaches’ contact information. Remember to follow up with the coach within four weeks of the letter.”
The Player MUST Contact. “Parents can help sort out e-mails, find the coaches to contact, and even coach the player on how to deal with recruiters. But parents should not contact the coach on behalf of the player; that is something the player needs to do themselves. The player is the one driving the boat, and the parent is just putting gas in it.”
Narrow the Schools. “Start crossing more schools of the list as you re-focus your priorities and determine which coaches are interested. Still include some stretch schools and safety schools. During the fall of senior year, you should have your list of schools reduced to 10-15 schools.”
Arrange Visits. “There is no substitute for walking a campus, meeting future potential teammates, and experiencing the location of a college. The feel of being at a college is important, and can easily sway the selection process if a school feels like a right fit.”
Apply to Your Top Schools. “The list should now be down to 5-10 schools that you absolutely see yourself succeeding at in both lacrosse and academics. Always have one or two safety and stretch schools. Applying costs money, so make sure you have done your homework to know exactly which colleges are ‘the ones’.”
Communicate with Coaches. “Continue to proactively maintain communication with coaches. Make them aware of your off-season activity, including other sports you are playing or off-season games. Follow up with each coach you are in contact with and just make them aware of your situation.”
Make the Decision. “Finally, make your decision and stick with it. Your mind will raise a lot of “what-if” questions. Try to ignore them and be excited about your choice and get prepared for your new college career!”